HELLO!

I’m Vivian McGrath, Personal Power Coach and here to show you you’re stronger than you know and more beautiful than you realise and it’s time to live your best life both inside and out.

Personal Power coach for high performing women who are ready to stop hiding behind a successful career or keeping up the appearance of the perfect family while experiencing a less than desirable personal life. Women who are ready to claim their best life both on the inside and out.

Sound like a journey you’d like to join?

You found the courage to walk away from a toxic relationship and now it’s time to rebuild your life. It may feel like that’s the end of it all but it’s just the beginning. Believe me, your best days are ahead of you. But after working with hundreds of women the chances are you’ll attract the same type of relationship and are at risk of repeating that vicious cycle. The good news is, there is a way to ensure this never happens to you again. I know because I was able to break the unconscious pattern that kept me from experiencing the type of love and life myself and my son truly deserved. I’m Vivian McGrath, Personal Power coach for high performing women who are ready to stop hiding behind a successful career or keeping up the appearance of the perfect family while experiencing a less than desirable personal life. Women who are ready to claim their best life both on the inside and out.

I’m a survivor of domestic violence – my ex almost murdered me. But I did not let this toxic relationship define me. My life is now amazing despite and because of it.

The most terrifying night of my life was when I escaped from my violent ex. I packed my baby and only what I could fit into my car and fled into the night.

As I drove across the Sydney Harbour Bridge I kept looking in the rearview mirror, terrified he was following me. ‘If you ever leave me I’ll kill you and our son’ he had warned me and I knew he was capable of it. He’d almost murdered me once before.

He’d wrapped his hands around my throat when I was 7 months pregnant and as he squeezed tighter and tighter, screaming at me to die. On my last breaths of air I begged for my life. I wasn’t ready to die. I’d never get to meet my unborn child. Then a white tunnel of light closed in around me as I lost consciousness. I thought the last face I’d ever see was the man I loved murdering me.

It took me one year to find the courage to leave him. I loved him and wanted so much for us to be a family. I thought I could help him heal the wounds that troubled him and made him lash out. I almost died trying to rescue him and then I realised that I was the one who needed saving.

I was successful in work but relationships were like a bad drug for me and I kept repeating the same destructive pattern over and over again. I’d attract emotionally unavailable types and saw the red flags that told me to run.

But I kept getting drawn back in, always hoping things would get better and fooling myself I could heal them and fix the relationship. I am sure you can relate to this. He had so much potential. I could see the best in him and kept thinking, if I just love him enough and support him enough, he could be the perfect man. Then we’d be happy. After all, you have to fight for the ones you love, right?

I thought I was in control but the reality was my life was more out of control than ever before. I was sick and tired of being sick and tired. I had nothing left, hit rock bottom and sobbed until I was spent.

But that was one of the greatest turning points in my life. Deep down I knew there was a better life for me and my son. I turned my shame into courage when I asked myself: ‘Who do I have to become to create the life I dream of?’

I thought my problem was them – men. If I could just attract a different type of guy then I’d get the happy ever after I was longing for. But I was going about it all the wrong way! I realized the only thing I had power or control over was me. It was time for me to stop living a lie, face the truth and live my best life both inside and out.

Something inside me said there was a greater life for me than this and now I was ready to unlock and unleash it. This opened the door to success and freedom beyond my wildest dreams. I triumphed over past pain and created a life of passion and purpose, transforming the lives of other women along the way.

I reclaimed my life and my career, becoming a successful television producer with global networks like BBC, TLC, ABC and Discovery.

See my professional CV here

Best of all, I found the love that I longed for. The kind of love that lasts with a man I can be vulnerable with and know he will never use it to hurt me. The trust that bonds us forged the deepest and most loving connection I never thought possible. Is that what you are looking for?

In many ways it was back then, the type of love I never thought I was worthy of and it brought me more happiness and joy than I ever could have imagined.

This is what you deserve and what I want for you.

My ideal client …

 

I serve individuals with big dreams who are ready to realize their full potential and get out of their own way.

You may have tried everything to overcome what’s been holding you back, yet nothing has worked. Perhaps you’re feeling tired, at a loss as to what to do next. You’re ready to let go of control.

I support and guide those who recognize they play a role in what is happening in their life. Who are ready to take responsibility for and be accountable to themselves.

You are not seeking to make excuses or point blame at others. But to take your power back and look for answers within.

I serve those who are excited to work with me and prepared to do the inner work to transform your life. You understand the value of a mentor to accelerate your growth. You’re ready to invest your energy, time and resources, emotionally, mentally, physically and financially, to change your life and realize your dreams.

Is this you?

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“No one is in control of your happiness but you; therefore, you have the power to change anything about yourself or your life that you want to change.”
– Barbara de Angelis